Why Pursuing Your "Calling" Might Be Holding You Back
In the pursuit of self-fulfillment and purpose, many of us have fallen into the trap of searching for our "calling." It's a common narrative, the idea that each of us has a predestined path waiting to be discovered. But what if this approach is more limiting than liberating? What if the key to a fulfilling career lies not in finding a singular calling, but in aligning our work with who we are and what we value?
I often find myself in conversations with people who express frustration at not having found their calling yet. They feel a sense of aimlessness, as if they're wandering through life without a clear purpose. However, I believe that this mindset might be part of the problem rather than the solution. Instead of fixating on finding a calling, perhaps it's time to shift our focus to finding a career that resonates with who we are at our core.
So, what does this shift in perspective entail? Here are a few key steps to consider:
Step One: Get to Know You
Before embarking on any career path, it's crucial to take the time to truly understand yourself:
1. Who You Are
By understanding your strengths, motivations, personality, and more, you can better understand what kind of work is going to align with how you naturally operate which brings out productivity, performance, and just general satisfaction.
2. Why You Do What You Do
Delve into the motivations behind your actions. What drives you? Is it a desire for creativity, impact, financial security, or something else entirely? Understanding your intrinsic motivations will help you identify careers that fulfill those needs.
3. Your Values
Define your core values—the principles and beliefs that guide your decisions and actions. Whether it's integrity, innovation, compassion, or autonomy, finding work that aligns with your values is essential for long-term satisfaction and fulfillment.
4. Your Goals and Desired Lifestyle
Consider what you want to achieve in both your career and personal life. Do you aspire to climb the corporate ladder, start your own business, or achieve a better work-life balance? Maybe it’s retiring to a beach in Hawaii or leaving a legacy. Clarifying your goals will help you prioritize career opportunities that support your desired lifestyle.
Step Two: Understand Where You Will Thrive
Once you have a deeper understanding of yourself, it's important to assess the environments in which you're likely to thrive:
1. Work Environment
Consider the type of workplace culture and atmosphere that brings out the best in you. Are you more productive in a collaborative or independent setting? Do you prefer a structured or flexible work environment? Understanding your ideal work environment will help you narrow down your career options.
2. Industry and Sector
Explore different industries and sectors to identify those that resonate with your interests and values. Whether it's healthcare, technology, education, or the arts, finding an industry that aligns with your passions will make your work more meaningful and rewarding.
Step Three: Don't Jump, Research
Finally, resist the temptation to leap into a new career without thorough research and preparation:
1. Research Career Options
Take the time to research various career options that align with your journey. Explore job descriptions, industry trends, salary expectations, and growth opportunities to make informed decisions about your career path.
2. Seek Advice and Mentorship
Reach out to professionals in your desired field for insights and advice. Personally, I think informational interviews are gold in learning more about your perspective new field. However, seeking networking events and mentorship programs can also provide valuable guidance and support as you navigate your career transition.
3. Test the Waters
Consider taking on internships, freelance projects, or part-time roles to gain hands-on experience and test the waters before committing to a new career path. This practical exposure will help you assess whether a particular industry or role is the right fit for you.
The pursuit of a singular calling can be a limiting mindset that overlooks the complexity and diversity of individual interests and talents. Instead, focus on finding a career that aligns with who you are, your values, and the lifestyle you want to lead. By getting to know yourself, understanding where you will thrive, and conducting thorough research, you can embark on a fulfilling career journey that honors your true self. Remember, it's not about finding your calling—it's about creating a career that allows you to thrive and make a meaningful impact on the world.
Want a step-by-step approach to help you navigate this change? Check out the Career Clarity Roadmap where I will take you from feeling lost and overwhelmed to clear on what your next career step is.